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Last night on our show someone brought up
a good question about relationships and being able to recognize
the outcome if your psychic. So I'm here to dispel any myths
people have about that.
We are all Human first and we are all here
to learn and grow through the Human experience. Yes some
of us are gifted with the ability to communicate with Spirits,
foresee future events, view past events and read someones
energy. This however does not always apply with those we
are intimately involved with on a daily basis. Besides,
how much fun would that be?
As our emotions engage in any situation, we
are fully engaged in the moment of experience. Just like
an average person, our rational mind gets affected by our
personal filters and our intuition is muted.
This is not to say that while engaged in a
relationship we don't have cues as to lies, misdeeds or
upcoming pitfalls, we do. It is up to the individual who
is gifted to stay aware of their personal growth and recognize
the messages they are getting if the relationship is heading
for a place that blocks their flow in life.
I have personally had the experience of being
woken up by a lucid dream, warning of someone cheating on
me, and given very clear direction on how to catch the person
in the act. The suspicion was already present but without
proof it was not something I was willing to hammer home.
Well I got my proof and literally walked into the restaurant
where my boyfriend at the time was on a date. As I peacefully
and quietly sat beside him to let him know I was fully aware
of what was happening and it was over, I was able to walk
away without further question.
But, in the beginning of a relationship with
all the warm fuzzies and good behavior, it is not so easy
as to just "know" if this person is right. Sometimes you
have to journey through lifes experiences to learn your
lessons without a guide map.
Remember our discussion on soulmates, a soulmate
is a person who will cause you to grow quickly and grow
greatly, not necessarily a person who is to be a permanent
part of your path. Prior to incarnating we all make soul
agreements and soul contracts to learn and teach one another
something at a specific time. As you begin to understand
the soulmate connection more I pray you are able to rectify
and heal your past hurts and wounds.
Much Love in Spirit, Bernadette
6/18/08
